KJ Song is a holistic kink practitioner and dominatrix. They describe holistic kink as the practice of using various forms of sexuality for psychological and spiritual healing and have seen it to be effective both in her life and the lives of her clients. KJ shares that in their experience the deeper reason for people turning to sex work is because they are seeking to either be: “seen” “heard” or “accepted”. They also debunk many of the misconceptions around sex-work and share how healing and transformative it can be for both the practitioner or model and the member.