Dr. Candice Cooper-Lovett discusses her approach to therapy using her formal education as a doctor and therapist as well as combining this approach with a more holistic approach with the ancient teachings of tantra. She explains the healing power on on trauma that pleasure and sexuality can have when used intentionally. Dr. Cooper-Lovett also discusses the deep connection and surrender experienced during orgasm and the primal need for connection in human beings. She explores the underlying needs that drive people’s desires and fetishes and addresses the shame and taboo surrounding sexuality. Dr. Cooper-Lovett emphasizes the importance of honoring one’s sexual needs while being safe and careful. She discusses how camming and other sex-work is a service to fulfill primal needs for others that aren’t having those needs met in their daily lives.